OPPS? I GOT ENGAGED!

 

Aku macam ambil masa yang agak lama nak publish post ni ye. Sebab aku too busy dengan kerja, cuti pun mostly rehat, tidur, makan. Disebabkan esok aku kerja petang, jadinya aku decide untuk menghadap laptop ni and publish a post! Well, actually nak post semalam tapi aku still takde idea? Walaupun tajuk dah ada 💀

"Bila kita nak kahwin?" 

"Boleh tak bagi masa? Ingat senang ke nak kahwin." 

It was a real conversation tau between us. Sebab tbh aku rasa macam kitaorang dah 'terlalu lama' couple lepastu macam 'tak nampak' hala tuju ((masa aku tanya benda tu)). But korangggggg IT'S NOT AN EASY DECISION TAU nak kahwin ni??? Sebab bukan macam ajak lepak, dating ekkkk?? Aku tak pressure tengok orang kahwin sebab aku dah brief myself yang aku memang nak kahwin lambat sikit 😅 sebab aku jenis nak kerja dulu & lepak lepak dengan member. Lepastu udahnya member pun ramai kahwin hahahahah 😭😭😭 so at the end of the day, wujudlah conversation tu. 

Ngl, we both were very stressing over this 'first step of kahwin thingy' sebab macam banyaknya benda nak kena belanja, nak kena beli, planning all stuffs from a-z. But firstly, we both actually list out the things yang PERLU BELI dalam notes. Design cincin, dulang, date of engagement, theme, baju nikah, color EVERYTHING sebab senang nak refer. 

In the blink of eyes, booommmm kitaorang pergi beli cincin masa tu bulan 9. Parents aku tak tahu pasal ni, only his parents je yang tahu sebab takut kena reject 💀 usha usha tiktok semua lastly decided beli dekat merchant 9 ttdi. Dua ekor ni pun masuk la kedai emas macam kerang busuk sebab takde idea lansung how much nilai emas masa tu. Memang gamble main bantai je masuk. Dalam 30 mins macam tu settle pilih & bayar 💸💸💸

In a few weeks after, he told my mother. Lepastu mak aku macam "OKAY BOLEHHHH" aku like??? Oh??? Ingatkan tak kasi lagi??? 😱 LEPASTU BERMULA LAH DI MANA AKU RUSHING CARI EVERYTHINGGGGGGG ESPECIALLY HOMESTAY!!! Pung pang pung pang, bestie tolong aku. Jumpa dekat AU2 je dekat sangat. Alhamdulillah. 

"Saya nak book 8hb ada kosong tak?" 

"Maaf cik, date tu dah ada orang booking" 

"Kalau macam tu saya nak book 15hb la" 

"Okay boleh ada kosong tapi cik kena terus bayar full payment ya" 

Sepantas kilat, esok tu aku bayar! Mula-mula macam doubt ya dengan owner tapi actually tu memang procedure dia sendiri. Actually, both owners are good & welcoming sangat. Siap recommend khemah yang sangat MURAH for me??? 

Fast forward everything, the day has come! Nak cerita semua benda yang jadi memang sangat menguji aku yang banyak kesabarannya hahahaha. Dengan inai macam taikkkkk! Butttttt dapat diselamatkan dengan pergi uptown 😂

A biggggg shout out to my ibu - in law sebab managed to gubah hantaran lawa lawa for me <3 aku ada send appreciation text dekat ibu after settle sambil menangis terharu. Sebab aku sangat terharu??? And what makes me more touching when ibu exposed aku dekat status ws dia 💓 nasib baik ibu pilih gambar helokkk helokkkk :p 

Tadaaaa! Yang ni a biggggg shout out to my cuzzy yang gubah. Tema bunga oren tu mak aku yang pilih so naiklah warna tu semua daboommmmmm! Angah pula memang tangan kreatif as she is the only one yang creative dalam family kitaorang 😂😂😂 ni kalau buat sendiri entah apa rupa yee??? 

Banyakkk sangat benda nak cerita kalau nak di-recap. Tapi aku cerita yang penting and tak di-exposed sangat. Alhamdulillah everything went very well. From makanan, pelamin & photographer. 

This is my favorite photo of us. Sebab ada bentuk <3 in the middle tu 💓

To my IR, 

I have so much grateful for you. For your existence, your love, your supports, your understandings. Everything. Semua yang kita hadap since day one kita start love each other sampai sekarang, only us yang tahu. Gaduh, and the "nak break, i tak tahan" finally made us to this first chapter of us. 

I doakan you dimurahkan rezeki yang melimpah ruah since the first time you said "hujung tahun kita tunang". Because, after this you ada tanggungjawab yang lagi besar for us, for our future family. I also doakan you akan mampu carry tanggungjawab & amanah you sebaik mungkin. I doakan you jadi suami & ayah yang baik for me & the kids in the future 👪 Insya Allah, amin. 

Forever us. 

FEBRUARY DUMP

It's been 2 weeks since Emma's wedding day. It was such a lovely day where i witnessed my bff nikah & reception in a day. Me & Siti didn't could do much more for her, but we were there helping her a bit. Few days before the day, we met and had dinner & spent a little bit time before she changes her title to Mrs. Emotional time whereby i lonely imagined that 10 years ago we were too busy & stressing over homework & how time flies over and over where now we all faced rough days at workplace & save money to get married to the person whom we loved to. 

I still remembered when Emma told us both that she is dating a senior from high school. We both were puzzling in head thinking who is the senior guy that she talked to other than 'now her husband'. And i was like; 

"KAU DENGAN ABANG DIA KE?" 

"HAHAHAHA HAAH LEPASTU KITAORANG NAK TUNANG DAH"

LIKEEEE ARGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH 

"CEPATTTT GILAAAAAAA" me & Siti said together. 

And that is how it goes when we were dining in Mr Dakgalbi. We shocked in a moment but no doubt we were very happy that finally she chose him YTJT. I couldn't make to their engagement day because i worked so my very first time seeing them together happily was during their big day. Emma looked very stunning with her make up & dress and she smiled happily as much as we are seeing her & husband happy. 

Back on 10th Feb. This girl had her engagement day during CNY. She told me earlier that they both already bought a ring but THEY DON'T KNOW WHEN TO TIED THE KNOT YET. As time goes by, she said; 

"kaaa bulan dua tahun depannn" 

"tarikhhhhh BILAAAA" 

"TAK TAHUUUUUU TAPI BULAN DUAAAA" 

She decided to invite her friends all over the region by saying "jemput datang rumah ada buat makan makan sikit & tahlil" and when they came they shocked it was actually an engagement day of their friend. I guess she wanted to be make a trend "makan makan tapi makan lauk kenduri" 

"pelamin aku macam Bizmilla" 

"ada air-cooler tauuuu" 

"nad, tolong bungkuskan lauk lepastu nanti korang bahagi kan la sendiri" 

"nanti bie dah amik kereta, sayang fikirlah nak jalan pergi mana" 

"IPOHHHH" 

And here we go. 2 hours of Rusyaidi driving we firstly managed to eat at a well-known tiktok cafe. My first reaction was kinda amazed with the surroundings. It was very different from cafes that i have been in KL. The decorations are very pleasant & welcoming and we both quite weird that Ipoh people had lunch in cafe because i said; "orang KL makan tengahari dekat medan je" 

I could give the food 5/5 for the taste & presentations and also the portions are very huge! I didn't manage to finish mine like the cheese pasta had like 3-4 spoon left and i asked Rusyaidi to finish the chicken chop because i already burped so many times. 

I searched over the places we could go. I wanted to go for ride the 123 kayuh boat ((video in tiktok)) but it almost closed and Rusyaidi found Gunung Lang as our next destination. The cloud was about to cry as we reached there but we able to take few pictures before it cries. He bought an RM6 total tickets for both us to ride a boat on a small lake to cross over the next garden. Sadly, the cloud was raining heavily as we reached there and we had to wait about 20 minutes to sight-seeing over the garden. 

Our next destination continues to Concubine Lane. We had the so-called sugar jelly. Ughhh it was very sweet for me because they use gula melaka as gravy on top. We went to Ipoh on Monday so no crowd and we happily took much pictures together! 

Looking forward for next & more dating with Rusyaidi! <3 *or maybe honeymoon phase?*